Letters from the heart – our Top 20 love letters
Sample letters to through good and bad. After all the difficult times we've made it through, I know that it doesn't matter to you what happens, you will stand by. Coming out of a bad relationship, and getting into a good one. To start off, I'm still having trouble believing that someone actually wants me and cares about. Writing a breakup letter to someone can help bring closure to the situation, and it's easier to look at a good example and use it to help you end the relationship. . to how you spend your money, you'll never get out of trouble with your money.
Goodnight and goodbye, Connor Someone New If someone else has captured your heart, be honest with you partner and make a clean break. A letter worded like those below will help you do it as kindly as possible, even if the other person feels it is a sad breakup letter. Dear John, It's not easy to tell you this, but I recently began spending some time with a man from work. You don't know him, but over the course of the last few weeks, I've realized he and I have a connection I can no longer pretend doesn't exist.
It's not fair to you for me to pretend our relationship is going to work when I know in my heart my attention is elsewhere. You deserve someone who will love you, and only you, and I know you will find someone who will treat you right.
I'll always remember our time together as a special time in my life.
I hope you can forgive me and realize my leaving is the best thing for everyone involved. Sincerely, Mary Jennifer, I've made a mistake, and it's not easy to admit. I let my emotions wander to someone new. I should have been focused on our relationship, but another woman captured my heart. I want you to know my actions have nothing to do with you.
I've enjoyed our time together and appreciate what you've given to me. You were filling my cup, but for some reason I never felt full. I wish for you to carry on being you, it will be exactly what another man needs. Best wishes, Gene To a Cheater Nothing kills a relationship quicker than infidelityso don't settle for less than you deserve.
Kick that cheater to the curb with a letter that leaves no room for doubt that it's over. Jack, You may not realize I know what you have been up to with Delaney. The truth is what's done in darkness will always come to light, and I can't ignore the fact your attentions have turned to someone else. I can only hope someday the same thing happens to you, and you can know the pain that comes with having been cheated on.
Marie Brooke, I know you've been cheating. I thought I meant something to you, but obviously, you only care about yourself. I never want to see you again. Don't even mutter my name. Goodbye, and good riddance! Blake Long Distance Failure Long-distance relationships are tough, and sometimes they don't work out even if no one is at fault.
If you want to try to stay on good terms, say goodbye to your partner with a letter which ends the romance but still leaves an opportunity to remain friends. Dear Joe, I thought I could handle a long distance relationship, but I'm afraid this is just too much. I spend so much time worrying about what you're doing, who you're doing it with, and wondering if you even think of me often.
Our relationship might have had a fighting chance if a great deal of distance wasn't involved. I have to let you go so we are both free to move on with our lives. I hope we can remain friends, and I hope you agree this is the best decision for the both of us.
Fondly, Christina Dear June, I love you so much, and that's why it's become too hard to maintain our relationship long distance. It's just too hard not being able to hold you, spend time with you, and just see your face. We both know chatting online and talking on the phone is a poor substitute for time spent together. If we can't be together in person, then I don't think I want to be together at all. It's too much to bear. We have to end things so we can start healing our hearts and move on with our lives.
This isn't easy for me, and I can't imagine it's easy for you either, but this is the way it has to be. Fondly, Derek Abusive Relationship No one should have to put up with abuse. You should end the relationship immediately with a letter that puts the blame exactly where it belongs and slams the door on any chance of reconciliation.
Karen, The way you treat me is wrong. If you don't realize the way you treat me is wrong, then I suggest going to therapy to figure out why you treat the people you love like you do. If you keep going this way, you're going to find yourself alone.
I'll no longer take your abuse. I did love you at one time, but those feelings are long forgotten. Don't try to contact me because we are completely over, and I will never speak to you again.
Bye, Neil Steven, I refuse to live in fear of someone who is supposed to be my protector. I tried to make our relationship work, but your abuse is too much for anyone to handle. It's not fair to me to have to endure your wild mood swings and temper.
The way you treat me is not the way you treat someone you love. I respect myself enough to say goodbye to you. Make no mistake about it - we are finished. Have a good life, Carol Money Matters Whether you're in a relationship with a gold digger or someone who is a walking financial disaster, one of these letters will help you regain control of your heart and your bank account.
Lisa, When we first met, you duped me into believing you loved me for me, but after having been with you for a few months, it's blatantly obvious the only thing you want from me is my money.
I hope you enjoyed all the money you squeezed out of me because you won't get another dime.
Become a supporter and enjoy The Good Men Project ad free The content of your love letter needs to make sense. They really see me for who I am. It has to come from your heart. More on this shortly. The format is irrelevant I get it… not all of us are born writers. The format is irrelevant as long as it genuinely comes from your heart. The medium is irrelevant Some purists believe that hand written notes are the only way to go when it comes to delivery love letters… and while hand written is totally bad ass and a classic way of doing things, if your hand writing is as bad as mine then you might be better off sending a typed message via email, Facebook, etc.
Now, some people would argue that hand written letters stand the test of time more than sending the words via for exaggerations sake a Facebook message. But hand written letters can catch on fire… or have coffee spilled on them… or get eaten by the dog.
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So who is to say that a hand written love letter will necessarily last longer than a digital message will? Become a supporter and enjoy The Good Men Project ad free Whether you deliver it via beautiful stationary in your finest handwriting, a carefully crafted digital message, or a piece of paper that you commemorate in a photo frame, the delivery medium is largely irrelevant.
Important Things To Include In Your Love Letter I will now go into some structural elements of an effective love letter that you can then mix and match and use as you see fit. There is no one correct order for these to appear in in your finished love letter… these are simply elements.
Use whatever it useful for you. Here are seven important structural elements that you can include in your love letter. This can be as short as a few words, or as lengthy as a few paragraphs. For example you could say any of the following to kick off your love letter: So I thought it was finally time to put pen to paper and tell you how I feel about you.
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You are such a gift in my life and you deserve to know it… so I decided to write you this letter. What do they bring to your life?
For this point, and the following five points, brainstorm your responses for as long as you need to. What exactly does your partner bring to your life?
Physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, sexually. How do they elevate your life? How do they make your daily existence that much easier or better? This is your chance. Brainstorm out anywhere from things that your partner brings to your life and then pick your favourite handful to focus on. Some examples could be: I am healthier, more driven, and more emotionally fulfilled than at any other point in my life and that is in large part because of you.
I am so grateful to have you as a rock in my life. You are an absolute blessing. And, by all means, if any of the above examples do ring true for you then please feel free to use them verbatim.
Allude to memories that you share As simple as it sounds. Do you have a pre-existing relationship with this person? Then write out a list of all of your favourite memories that you shared and then pick your top couple of memories to reference in your love letter.
I fell in love with you right then and there. I have such fond memories of how we navigated the streets like a team and we went the entire trip without even a small argument. My legs felt like jelly for the next few days. You certain have always had a powerful effect on me. The choice is yours. What do you love about them?